Additions and Revisions - Summer 2000
26 October
Toy Box/Creating A Basic Toy Box
Good quality, custom made, toys tend to be very expensive. This piece looks at how to set up a well stocked, basic toy box for next-to-nothing.
22 October
Dom/mes Haven/First Scenes (For Submissives)
We all have things we want to show off to new submissives. How can we make for the best possible first experience for them?
17 October
New Features
Two new features were added to the site today.
Printing
You can also print most pages at the click of the printer image. The site has always been designed to fit the width of a single printed page and does not use anything messy like frames, so it should print well. If you have problems, you can always let us know and we'll do our best to make it work even better for you.
16 October
Subs Haven/Safety When Meeting
Some easy to follow ideas for making sure you are safe when meeting someone.
7 October
Introduction/Site Map
Finding what you are looking for just got a lot quicker with the new site map. The entire site is laid out for you.
1 October
Subs Haven/What Society Says
kitten talks about accepting who you are as a submissive and societies views upon it.
General/Munches/A First Munch
kitten's experiences of her first munch. A reassuring piece for those nervous about attending their own first munches.
General/Meeting A Partner
Information on how to go about meeting a partner who is interested in the scene.
30 September
General/Munches/UK Groups And Munches
A list of those UK munches that we are aware of.
General/Munches/US Groups And Munches
The beginnings of a list of those US munches that we are aware of. Due to the size of the list this will have to be an on-going project. If you want information for a state that is not listed, please contact us.
23 September 2000
Sub's Haven/In A submissive
Traits that kitten has noticed are beneficial for a submissive to possess.
Sub's Haven/Collaring
General thoughts on collars, for submissives.
22 September 2000
Dom/me's Haven/Learning To sub Before You Can Dom/me
An exploration of the common concept that Dom/mes must first learn to submit to gain the skills necessary to Dom/me.
General/The Validity Of Switching
Some people believe that switches are neither one thing nor the other and so fail at both. We put forward a contrasting opinion.
17 September 2000
Toy Box/Setting The Scene
Looking in to the simple things that can be done to elevate the setting, the room in which you play, from a place that detracts to one that truly enhances a scene.
16 September 2000
Dom/me's Haven/Can I Convert Them?
A discussion of the issues and possibilities of converting someone in to something you want them to be, bringing something out of them and how the two relate.
10 September 2000
Dom's Haven becomes Dom/me's Haven
It was pointed out the Dom's Haven was gender specific and, as it is meant for everyone, we've fixed it. Not sure Dom/me's haven looks as good but I'll leave it that way for a while. It was a FemDomme/malesub couple that pointed it out, unsuprisingly enough.
Introduction/Contact Us
To save you all going to the trouble of email programs and all the rest of it, a Contact Us page has been created for all of your thoughts and feedback.
Toy Box/Gags
The section on gags has been moved out of the Dom's Haven and put in to the Toy Box. This is because we're intending to build the Toy Box up in to a larger section dealing with all sorts of toys: gags; blindfolds; whips; crops; floggers; etc.
Toy Box/Piercing/Healing Times
A list of typical healing times for most of the major pierces has been added.
BDSM Checklist/Twenty Questions
For those of you who don't want to take the time to fill out the full checklist there's a briefer one available to give a quick, general, impression.
9 September 2000
General/Munches
The previous single munches page has now been broken up in to more managable sections along with a load of new content. As well as addressing what a munch is and information on how to go about organising one, there is information on the D/s UK Community munches, both for the members of that community and also to provide a case study.
3 September 2000
Sub's Haven/Am I A Normal Submissive?
kitten addresses some of the questions she has been asked by other submissives. It is also the first page to include a box for anonymously (if you wish) mailing your questions and comments to us.
Toy Box/Piercing
A whole set of pages related to some of the common things we get asked about piercing. There's a list of all of the different pierces - if you can't tell a madonna from a medusa. There's a list of aftercare products. There's also a quick run down of what happens, worth reading to set the mind at ease of any prospective piercee.
Library/Recommended Books By Others
A list of some of the best fiction and non-fiction we've come across, with full details and cross links to Amazon and Barnes and Noble.
2 September 2000
Checklist
It's been a while since anything was last added and this is why. The checklist has a large amount of new code doing all sorts of cool things. You can fill in your own personal entry, mail it to others, store it for future reference, compare it to others, even make it publically accessable, if you wish.
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