Additions and Revisions - Spring 2001
7 May
General/Dictionary/Acronyms
Several pages, making up a small new subsection of the dictionary have just been added. We have tried to cover as many commonly used acronym - both scene and net - as possible.
30 April
General Changes
Not so much new pages, more a revision of the way existing pages work. The Dom/mes Haven main page now includes a brief overview of what is inside it, helping you get to what you are looking for that much more easily. After all, brief titles can never give you a full flavour of what they hold. Over the next day or so I intend to add overviews to each of the main sections.
BDSM Checklist/Average Results
This page takes the average of every questionaire that has been filled in on the site. Do not worry - no names are kept so it is all totally anonymous. Still, it can be fascinating to know what the most popular kinks are, what the least popular are and how many people have tried them.
29 April
Our appologies for no visible updates for the last few weeks. We have been spending a huge amount of time working on the dictionary. As it is not complete yet, we have not listed it here or we would be listing it almost daily as we upload the latest version. Rest assured, it will be mentioned soon.
Dom/mes Haven/How To Raise A Disobedient Submissive
kitten lays on the sarcasm heavily to make a lot of points about good and bad Dom/mes from a submissives perspective. Do I catch glimpses of myself in there? Absolutely - any Dom who tells you he never makes mistakes is almost certainly either lying or deluded. The trick is to have the humility to learn.
Library/Recommended Books By Others
More books and now with reviews. kitten has been working hard.
General/D/s Vs. Vanilla Relationships
A common claim made within the scene is that D/s relationships manage to achieve a higher plain of commitment, of enlightenment, etc. than traditional vanilla relationships. While I by no means intend to lessen the value of D/s relationships, the aim of this piece is to offer a perspective that the "My lifestyle is better than yours" argument is based more on false assumptions and arrogance than actual truth.
8 April
Library/The Stranger
A new story about what happens when your Master places you in the hands of a total stranger.
Experiences/How Old Were You When?
This page is an email I posted to a discussion list. It talks about both first scene experiences - which is why it fits here - and a fair bit about my feelings on providing safe, sane, consensual, non-titilating advice to anyone who feels they need it, regardless of age. As with everything, I never claim to be right, I am simply offering my reasons for the decisions I have made.
8 March
Taken From The Front Page...
Regular visitors may have noticed we have been a little lax about publishing over the last few months. In December, kitten and I moved from London to her home town of San Diego. Planning our wedding, which took place on February 24th, has taken up a huge amount of our time. Please forgive us. We do however have a lot of new content that is being put up over the next few days and weeks.
Introduction
A new front page, giving a brief update of what has been happening with us and the site.
Experiences
A new section, the intention is to give an insight in to what happens in all the scary things in the scene as well as showing that other people have the same fears and nerves you do.
Experiences/A First Munch
Cross linked from the munches section, kitten talks about her experiences at her first munch.
Experiences/Our First Play Party
What really goes on in the mythical world of play parties.
Experiences/SM Pride March
What it was like to go on our first scene pride march. Closing off parts of the tourist heart of London and a procession of wildly dressed perverts made people think that maybe perversion may not be something so bad after all.
Experiences/What Happens (Piercing)
Soulthief talks about what happens when you get an 'intimate' pierce. How much it hurts, how long it lasts for and all the other things you are inevitably nervous of. Cross linked from the piercing section of the toy box.
Introduction/Additions and Revisions/Fall 2000
This page from the Fall (Autumn).
SoulThief and kitten
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This page was last updated on Monday 23rd 2001f July 2001