The BDSM Checklist
Introduction
The BDSM Play Partner Checklist is a convenient way of finding out where someone's interests lie. Just because someone's a Dom/me, it doesn't mean that every sub is perfect for them, or vice-versa. The checklist allows you to let people know both whether or not you've participated in a given activity before and also how you feel about it. It's a great way of getting a basic feel for where someone's limits and squicks lie, though - of course - it's no substitute for taking a lot of time to discover a partner's limits gently and safely and shouldn't be used as such.
The "New" BDSM Checklist
Two years ago, when we created the original checklist, we had no idea how popular it would be. With that popularity came a lot of different ways in which people have wanted to use the information. Some of them we were able to add relatively easily, hence the addition of things like the Suggested Scene and Compare Lists pages. Other things proved a lot harder with the way everything was structured.So, rather than try forcing additions on to a list that did not support them, we kept a list of all of the wishes, all of the good ideas - and the bad ones - and waited until we felt we could design something that either provided everything, or provided a framework on to which we could continue to add to.
To see all of the new features, check out the New Features link on the left. It is a long list and one we are very proud of.
The Pages
Register
This page allows you to create an account to use on the system.
Log In
Once you have an account, you can log in, whenever you want, here.
My Profile
This is the main page for your account. It lets you handle everything from controlling access to filling out new lists and emailing your checklist on to others.
Public Answers
This page contains a list of all of the people who were kind enough to make their checklists public. You can find your friends here or simply look to see what other people are in to for proof that you are not alone.
Answers
This page lets you view the answers for any given user. If a friend has filled in a checklist and given you their username, go to this page and type it in to view their list. Of course, if they are password protected, you’ll still have to enter the password before viewing them.
Compare Answers
If you want to take a quick look to see where your partner and you match up and where you don’t, you can go to the Compare Answers page. Now you can see your lists with one Dominating and the other submitting (and then vice-versa, beneath), lined up next to each other, as well as a calculated compatibility score.Once you have checked for yourself and your partner, you can always go and compare your list with that friend you have been considering playing with, or your subs with a Dominant you were considering loaning them to.
Suggested Scenes
Should you wish to, you can use the information stored in a checklist to generate a suggested scene. Paying attention to what is and isn’t enjoyed, scenes can be generated for Doms, for subs and even for couples, based on both their tastes.
Lies, Damned Lies And Statistics
If you are wondering how some of the numbers and conclusions the site comes up with are generated, this page should explain the theory behind them.
New Features
This is the page that talks about all of the new things that this checklist does that we are so proud of.
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This page was last updated on Wednesday 12th 2002f June 2002