Wearing A Collar

You may want to have them wear their collar whenever they are home, alone. This gets them spending their personal time thinking of themselves as your possession, constantly marked as such.

If they are comfortable and enjoy wearing your collar in private, consider extending it to weekends. Have them explore how it feels to be seen in public wearing a collar - while they shop at the mall, do their grocery shopping, have a picnic. This gives them the chance to see how it feels to be marked, in public, as a possession. Some people will, sadly, give them a hard time about it but deadpanning them usually kills any enjoyment someone can get from harassing them. Besides, with the adoption of the BDSM world as a fashion statement, most people either ignore it or are complimentary.

Finally, if your submissive is comfortable wearing their collar when at home and during their free time, you may want to have them move to wearing it all of the time. Some employers really do not care about collars. With others, it can be a major issue and it might be worth considering a less obvious, but nonetheless significant, form. Either way, wearing your collar all of the time, being constantly reminded and marked as your property, can be a very powerful thing.

You may want to build the focus on collar wearing by addressing the notion of their never truly being naked unless they are without their collar. If you are also working with their nudity, keep your collar on them and reassure them that they’re never totally exposed, that they are always protected, so long as they are wearing it. Should they be dressed but without the collar, focus on that as much more undressed. This way you build up yet more of a connection between them and your collar, making it something desirable to have with them at all times and, consequently, something deeply valued.

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