Ideas For Long Distance Relationships
Introduction
A lot of use experience long distance D/s relationships for
one reason or another. Sometimes we have met over the Internet. At other time,
life forces us apart for a while. Coming up with inventive ideas for what to
do, when you are unable to touch them, can become quite a challenge. So, here
is a long list of ideas that can hopefully provide some starting points.
Consideration
All of the ideas have been kept deliberately short or they
would have turned in to a whole book’s worth. As a result, I have not had space
to emphasize safety considerations for each concept.
As always, consider the implications to your submissive of
the acts. Pushing things, particularly when you are removed enough not to be
able to judge reactions easily can be risky. The last thing that you want to do
is to overstep some limit and leave them hurt.
Health concerns are another area to watch. Think through
what you are doing before ordering a submissive to try it. Will it cut off
circulation or risk their health in some other way?
Finally, protect those who cannot consent. Keep
exhibitionism play until late at night when children are asleep. If you want to
play with public nudity, consider adult venues where people are happy to see
that sort of things.
Layout
What was originally concieved as maybe a dozen short ideas quickly grew in to something much larger. So, for convenience's sake, we have broken the list up in to separate pages that you can download much faster. Alternatively, should you want the complete list in one long document, so you read through, picking up ideas as you go, it is also included in its complete form.
As for arranging them, there was another near impossibility. Do you arrange in terms of increasing kinkiness? Categorise by whether they are pain, mental, humiliation, exhibitionism based? Even when you try to do so, you quickly realise that something you concieve of as being based around mind games, someone else enjoys for its exhibitionism and someone else for humiliation reasons. So, while there is a general kind of a flow, the ideas are arranged in no real order.
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This page was last updated on Tuesday 07th 2002f May 2002