Enduring Pain
Pain play can be difficult to control over distance. After all, for all the will in the world, it is next to impossible to spank yourself. A good solution to this is to find something that can inflict a constant degree of pain without needing much supervision.Clothespins work well - though have only one intensity. If you wish to adjust the intensity, try varying the location slightly: towards the tip of a nipple tends to make things more painful; further back tends to reduce the effect. Alternatively, try adjustable clamps and having your submissive tighten them as far as they can stand, then move their hands away. If you are feeling sadistic, you can always add an extra quarter turn or two.
Once you have a clamp in place, set conditions for having it removed. Now is the time to [playfully] blackmail all kinds of concessions from your submissive: verbally humiliating themselves, to begging - offering other acts of submission to obediently waiting for permission to stop the pain. You may want to count to ten before permitting the clamp’s removal as this gives a sense of impending release, leaving you free to toy with the timings. Alternatively, have your submissive count to ten, knowing that, if they count too fast, you will just make them start over - forcing them to draw out their own torment.
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