Losing The Right To Refuse
So, you cannot use your submissive sexually but you want them to know that they are yours to have used sexually? Consider taking away their right to refuse some forms of sexual advance. Realistically, you do not want them put in danger so you need to consider quite what their rules are, but you can still take a lot from them.Depending on your submissive, their capabilities and your feelings about risks, you may not want to go so far as ordering them to respond favorably to every sexual advance but you could still have them encourage advances that place them at no risk (directly from the other person or from unsafe sex).
Even relatively simple orders can be effective. Imagine having to respond to every construction worker or frat-boy that yells, "Show us your breasts!" Imagine having to hang out at a club and retire to a corner with every person with roving hands that shows an interest.
Sometimes submissives pursue vanilla lives and relationships while submissive to a Dominant via the net. If that’s the case, and you are mature enough to handle it, consider controlling the pace of their relationships. Think of what will be going through your submissive’s head all night if they know they have to perform oral sex on their date - not for them but to please you.
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This page was last updated on Tuesday 07th 2002f May 2002