Submissive Journals
Submissive journals can be an incredibly useful yet simple tool for Dominants. By creating a journal in which your submissive writes all of their thoughts and feelings on their exploration of the scene, you have an immediate insight in to exactly what they are thinking; what they enjoy; what they do not; what you can push further.As well as a tool for gaining insight, submissive journals can help teach your submissive to open up to you and bring you both closer. By having to expose their thoughts and feelings to you - and having to trust you with those thoughts and feelings - it can be a very powerful way of strengthening your connection.
Depending on your circumstances, there are different ways of getting to read the journals. If you are only temporarily or periodically apart, you can wait until you are back together. If you are unable to be together at all, email works well - the ritual of having to send their thoughts daily or weekly can be another reinforcer. You may also find that either creating web pages or weblogs works well: prompting public admission of feelings, providing support to others in the scene and so on.
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This page was last updated on Tuesday 07th 2002f May 2002